Author Topic: Do you find your own enlarged breasts to be erotic?  (Read 6675 times)

Offline Alchemist

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Not at all.  There were the cause of a decade of misery and endless  harassment from age 12 when they popped right out bigger than the girls breasts my age until I got out of school. 

I married the girl who founded the college nudist club.  Then I got clobbered by a truck running a red light.and started a life (the rest of it to date from 1972) of severe chronic pain.   They stopped being an issue.  I was basically housebound for 6 months.  Outside the school environment, nobody really cared.  My wife didn't care.  She tried a few times to see if I responded erotically to them and I found them to be anything from nothing to annoying and anti erotic to an instant turn-off.
As a tantric practitioner I have learned lots about the erotic energies and their cultivation.  I suppose I might learn to be erotic with my breasts if I wanted to put in the effort.  My life situation is such I hardly have the time and energy to do what we enjoy (at nearly 70) and my partner is not at all interested in sexualizing or eroticizing them and neither am I.
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Offline bustymale

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My breasts and nipples are the most erogenous part of my body.

Offline SideSet

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Since developing relatively small breasts (B cup) at puberty, I have had a love/hate relationship with them for decades.  I would try to conceal them.  But they  gave pleasure the way a woman's breasts do, and that has always been nice.
Now that I have grown to my recent size of DDD, I was at first unhappy, especially since my breasts have a female shape with large feminine nipples.  However, my feelings were mixed because they became an even greater source of pleasure. At the same time I was becoming less capable of pleasure in other areas. 
When I started wearing a bra, my feelings went from mixed to completely positive.  I embraced not only the pleasure, but the appearance of having bigger breasts than most women, and not only needing to wear a bra, but wanting to wear one, both for comfort and confidence.

Offline chestyoldman

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Steven618, getting used to having breasts is quite a roller coaster of thoughts and emotions, isn't it? I remember how I felt when I first learned that I have gynecomastia and started wearing a bra. I loved the feeling of being supported, but I also felt like I had a big sign on me that said "this guy has breasts and is wearing a bra"! I am glad to say that I have finally reached the point that I rarely ever am concerned about people's reactions, because I've learned that most people are too busy focusing on their own lives and issues to pay that much attention to my chest or what I'm wearing. I'm sure part of my peace comes from the fact that my breasts aren't huge. I'm to the point now that wearing a bra each day is just a normal part of my wardrobe. As long as I am careful to not dress in a way that calls attention to my breasts or my bra no one seems to notice it, or if they do notice they don't react. 

Offline aboywithgirls

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I've been wearing a bra fulltime for over 30 years . I know that people notice. I'm a 36G or H in most of my bras. They're bound to notice . However it really doesn't bother me . I have boobs so I look and feel better wearing a bra . And because of my shape, I wear panties too. It's ok. I just dress my shape. I have no problem with getting fitted , having my mammogram and sonogram every year . If you have breasts and you're keeping them. You really need to take care of them.
Bras aren't for women, they're for breasts.

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I think in today's culture, not many people care much about anything anymore anyway! Boys can be girls, girls can be boys or just look like they are. Hair can be green, yellow purple or what ever color. So I don't think many people even care much anyway. Or it might be that they just don't notice it!

Offline Athena12@

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As alchemist said, no feeling at all and the wife sure doesn't care at 70years old.  The word sex is not known in this house since the wife hit menopause and my sexual desire has decreased to nothing since I got these small 36B's but they fill a hand full and that is all I use to require in a partner/wife,  Now I have got them they are just there and sloooooowly growing.
« Last Edit: June 01, 2018, 10:16:09 PM by Athena12@ »
If you got them flaunt them.  We all wear bras so wear what you like and to hell with the rest.

Offline SideSet

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So nice you have your own boobs to play with since you are not getting any from your wife. I hope your wife realizes she has a good thing with you having breasts and wearing bras like a woman.

Offline paulpark21

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I was very happy when my breasts started to grow (later in life) as I was always a breast man and wanted what the girls had.  At first maybe erotic, but I do love playing with them (38 B)

Offline Goodnplenty

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I've said this before here but I'll say again.  If you would have asked me before my growth started I would have been either indifferent or very opposed to the thought of having breasts.  I viewed female breasts as a mostly larger male breast with more protrusion a fat.  I of course knew that they produced milk for nursing.  But I had no idea of the amount of sensitivity and pleasure that came along with having breasts.  I just couldn't give that up now.  At this point I just enjoy the enhanced feelings and I even like the rounded shape and fullness more.  I know that's not a popular opinion in some parts of this board but that's the way I feel.  I've also gained some insight into why some women obsess over their own breasts and don't begrudge them for wanting bigger better shaped breasts the way I used to.

Offline gyneco_jason

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A lot of men who don't have gynecomastia are turned on by their chests being played with during sex, so it might not necessarily have anything to do with the gynecomastia.

Offline chaos_agent

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Interesting subject.

I scoop/swoop a 38A fits nicely, and some 38B depending on the bra.

If I had a choice, my girls would be gone. No agonizing or time to think it over. They would be gone.

Since the girls aren’t going anywhere, I  enjoy them. They are becoming more feminine. I like their shape and how they feel.

I have worm sports bras during martial arts to minimize bounce and protect and they are mostly undetectable under my uniform. Sometimes wear a comfort bra just to minimize the bounce.  But at my size, I go braless most of the time. I wear a bra so infrequently, it can be kinda fun. No I’m not a cross dresser or planning to go MtF. 

I know I’m fortunate, that some of you are much bigger and a bra is required and sometimes a pain and not that much fun.



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Offline terapixel

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actually, even though they caused me a lot of mixed feelings, I would say "yes". I could never keep my hands off of them, but letting others grope me took some getting used to. but once I let go, it felt really right. and I have had so much fun with them, that I doubt I will ever go under the knife and say bye bye to my girls.

What sucks is that since I have found out how much some guys like my boobs, I really really wish I had done porn in the past. I can't do that now, but... it is nice to know that there is a market for soft-looking boys with 40DDD breasts. That would have also saved me from years of pain and embarrassment... a form of sexual openness, or therapy...

funny thing: I have had some "straight" guys say that my body confused them so much, that they don't know if they are straight or what. I love that. like... it really helps me feel like i am sexy and not some sort of genetic or endocrinological oddity.

and after spending most of my life feeling like I was an unsexy freak... feeling like a sexy freak is pretty empowering.



 

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