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Offline perky

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I very much enjoy the sensations I'm experiencing now and until recently I think nobody would even notice my little boobs. They are growing though so maybe this summer I might start to think twice about going to the beach topless though. Would anyone notice now or am I being paranoid?

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Offline curiousk

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You definitely have noticeably enlarged breasts.  It appears that bra helps give you the support you need.  Tough decision to go topless at the beach or the pool with breasts that size.  I have gone topless at the beach or pool off and on for the years.  I think that this summer I'll be trying a tankini to wear at the beach or pool.  I feel that, for me, this is a good way to deal with my C cup breasts to be comfortable.  

Offline gmast

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Sure, some would notice.  But who would care, why would it matter if they did?

Offline SideSet

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What is your bra size?  You will be noticed either way.  What does your wife suggest?

Offline perky

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This bra is 36A and but have other 34B that fit the same. I haven't spoken to my wife about this for well over a year but I do think they are noticeably bigger since then. Im not too bothered by the size at the moment but i'm beginning to wonder how much more I've got to come. I am getting increasingly sensitive which is nice but I guess is an indication that i'm still growing.

Offline taxmapper

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The emotional and social-persona will change over time. (That being your personal view of yourself and confidence) because eventually and unless you have surgery, you will start to like your breasts for what they are or collapse over them. 

the past few days I have started to walk a bit more upright and straight back, which causes mine to push out a bit, (they too are growing still) and I am actually proud to have them starting to show.   

It feels good to not hide them, and even get some interesting looks primarily from women. 
Not bad, just different. 

Offline perky

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It's a double edged sword I guess. The fact is I already love them and if it wasn't for what other might think Id like them bigger too. They give me so much pleasure these days that Ive just never experienced before, I cant leave them alone most of the time.

Offline Dudewithboobs

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That seems to become inevitable. Don’t want them not a fan please quit growing then the sensations become present and it’s like hey this is kinda nice I don’t think I’d mind if these things kept growing lol. I don’t think anyone here wants to be a a b c d e I e I o cup but it’s tough to deny the pleasure they give.
 
On another note I’m of firm belief men being men we a) think any breast growth means we are noticeable as Dolly Parton shirtless and b) any breast growth is ooooo boobs. I think we can get a little ahead of ourselves and I’m going to go against the grain here and no intent to cause friction but judging by what I can see in the pictures is you are a bit overweight and the bra doesn’t look like it’s all that full and while it def looks like it’s holding something. With appeared age and weight if I saw you topless especially with the hair I wouldn’t think anything of it. I think there’s a large difference and not a fine line one of a man having boobs and a man having feminine breasts. And maybe they will grow but if not I would say you can be confident in my opinion you will be fine if you went shirtless 

Offline perky

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I completely agree with dudewithboobs that the bra doesn't look particullry full and yes you are correct in thinking I a little older, I'm 63. I'm not overweight though and never have been. I'm fit and healthy, 5"10 72kg and lead a very active life. I think I have lost a little muscle recently due to normal ageing though so things are not quite as toned as they once were around my chest and waste. A think a fair bit of my chest is kind of spread out wide, so braless I don't "think" I protrude all that that much (hence my question about anyone noticing my bare chest) but in a bra it all get scooped up and pushed forward (which is kind of fun). I guess the only way to find out if anyone notices my bare chest at the beach is to get out there and find out. 

Offline Dudewithboobs

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Agreed and what I’ve come to find out is if you walk like a duck act like a duck and sound like one you’ll be seen as a duck. People may notice it or may not but no ones gonna give two sh—s. If you act sound and look like a man minus the boobs people will look and in two seconds be back to whatever they were doing. Unless you’re waltzing around trying to add emphasis to it all and attract attention then people would probably stare or care. Plus you got age working in your favor. After 40 I believe is the magic number testosterone goes on the decline older men with breasts is normal. I’m 34 and got a 36b chest I have little room left in my bra cups. I’m personally concerned but those I swim with aren’t in great shape so I don’t body shake myself cause of that if it makes sense. But yeah I think you’ll be fine. 

Offline perky

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So this is what it looks like without the bra. My nipples are getting longer and are erect a lot of the time now. If i'm honest i'm not too concerned about my nipples that clearly do show through my T shirts now, i actually quite like that for some reason. 
« Last Edit: April 10, 2021, 04:20:24 AM by perky »

Offline Dudewithboobs

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Based on the image I’d never think there was anything there to go noticed or concerned about. Of course comfort is key and if there is any discomfort support is helpful and beneficial. But based on the image alone I’d say just a normal guys chest nipples and areolas look aesthetically normal as well but again comfort in the end is key and is subjective. 

Offline taxmapper

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Agreed. 
I am nowhere near a full D cup muchless a C unless you shrunk my body down.

Its the glandular tissue and the overall weight that is key in that point. More of it, more discomfort. 
  


Offline perky

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Thanks guys I really appreciate your comments. It looks like I probably have been getting overly concerned about my appearance. It did actually cross my mind that if I didn't have these sensations going on in the breasts as I do, then perhaps I wouldn't have even thought much about the visual side of it myself. I guess people who know me well such as family etc might notice some change over the last couple of years, but a complete stranger, would they even look twice? I guess not. Well, summer is nearly here so will soon find out. Thank you.


 

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